Today I'd like to share with you an article about the loneliness that everyone experiences. The author of the article is my good friend Fu Jiajie.
whether you admit it or not, the road of life, in the final analysis, is to walk alone.
Life is like a speeding time train, the people you meet are the trees by the side of the road, leaving a beautiful scenery, but also timely tell you: do not stop, do not chase.
but we are always greedy, want to keep those moving moments, want to capture those vivid memories, want to squeeze the time of chewing joys and sorrows alone is extremely short, and stretch the time of sharing happiness and happiness endlessly.
the early morning is the heaviest time of day for haze, just like my state of mind at that time.
(taken at the Pompidou Art Center in Paris)
when I was 24 years old, I looked at the grass-green walls and blue lights outside the operating room, waiting for the results of my family's treatment. It was only a few hours, but it was as long as half a century.
of course there is indignation at the injustice of fate, but so what. There are huge waves in the chest, calm down, not to try to accept, to face, to solve.
since then, I began to fully cover my own expenses and learned to carry the financial burden of my family on my shoulders. When it comes to similar or even more serious things, they can also deal with them relatively calmly.
We have something absolutely perfect for any occasion in your life.
Han Han's "the next meeting" says that only children can tell right from wrong, while adults only look at the pros and cons. Similarly, children are afraid of loneliness and adults just want to grow up.
whether the carnival is the loneliness of a group of people, whether the last subway only echoes the "click" of your high heels, whether the office at two o'clock in the morning is still on, whether the whole city is asleep, whether only streetlights accompany you.
to some extent, the lonelier you are, the freer you are.
these two years have special meaning to me.
I put together all kinds of feelings about loneliness into the book "the lonelier the freer". There are life growth, love concepts, inspirational pages and emotional parts.
now it is popular to talk about freedom. Financial freedom is needed to make a living, and spiritual freedom is needed for recreation. But freedom is not readily available, its premise is from accepting loneliness to enjoying loneliness. I don't see a man who ends in solitude and gets truth and freedom.
(taken in Zelmatt Hung Peak)
every you who transcends loneliness is a shining star in the night sky.
above is a highly praised author of "one one". Tencent's annual influence monologue by Fu Jiefu .
May everyone who suffers from loneliness and is confused by the road ahead can gain the faith and courage to embrace loneliness and pursue freedom from this book.
Huang Xiangli, Han Songluo, Li Shu
accept the essence of loneliness